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The Art of Positive Coaching
Common Courtesy is the Key to Good Coaching
Coach Roger Freberg January 2000 San Luis Obispo, CA Reprinted from Cal Track & Running News
Roger Freberg is one of our most popular writers with
California Track & Running News. This article is reprinted
from the May/June 2000 issue of that publication. To
reach coach, try rfreberg@thegrid.net.
Seven Concepts of Positive Coaching
The role of a coach is similar to that of
a parent or teacher. Our common goal
in these roles is to prod, motivate, and
cajole youth to be all they can be, to bor-row
the Army's slogan. We're not in a pop-ularity
contest, but there are both positive
and negative ways to achieve our goals. All
we need is a little psychology. In the United
States, we have an unfortunate cultural
tendency to ignore good behavior. After all,
we're such good parents, coaches, and
teachers that we're ENTITLED to good
behavior. The problem with ignoring good
behavior or performance is that it will
undergo what psychologists refer to as
"extinction." In extinction, unrewarded
behavior simply stops. At the same time,
we tend to really pay attention to negative
behaviors. Attention can be a positive out-come
for young people, and our attention
may actually increase the behaviors we
want to reduce.Utilizing the Psychology of Motivation How do we apply these principles to
the coaching? First of all, to be a good
motivator, your opinion must matter to
your athletes. If they don't care what you
think of them, you're not going to be very
effective. The key here is mutual respect.
Coaches who demonstrate respect for athletes
will have their undivided attention.
Coaches who belittle and
demean their athletes will be
tuned out eventually. Female
athletes are especially sensi-tive
to criticism. The types of
comments that males just
take in stride can be devas-tating
to a female athlete.
It's also essential to be a
good listener. Many of
today's youth do not have
adults in their lives with the
time and inclination to really
listen to them. If you take
that time to show you care
how they're doing in school
and out of sports, you will
have a much better idea of
what makes your athletes
tick, and they will view you
as being on their side. You will also gain
the attention of your athletes if you are a
regular source of positive feedback. All
young people do good things some of
the time. Catch them being good and
make a big deal out of it. It may be an
athletic achievement, or just that they
showed consideration to a team-mate.
If you want them to do it
again, let them know you appreciate
it. CONCEPT 1
Part of
this
process is setting realistic
short-term goals. Goals that can be
reached with a reasonable amount of effort
in a short time are key. Goals can be set
daily, weekly, and seasonally. A reasonable
question to ask any athlete is "where do
you want to be by the end of the season?"
From this point, shorter and smaller goals
can be set to reach the eventual goal. In
field events, the concept of "inch by inch is
a cinch" is the driving concept here.
Finding an Effective Carrot
Now that we have their attention, how
do we specifically use rewards to motivate
better commitment and performance?
Coaches influence better performance
through the process of "shaping" (the sci-entific
term is the "method of successive
approximations"). In a nutshell, shaping
means that you gradually raise
the bar for obtaining praise and
rewards. We start novices by
praising them for being alive
and standing up on two feet.
Seriously, at the outset, we have
very broad criteria for gaining
praise. As the athlete progresses
through skill levels, we become
very gradually stingier and
stingier with our praise and
approval. The tricky part is to
know when to ask an athlete
for more.
This is like walking a
tightrope, and a mastery of this
skill separates the truly great
coaches from the wannabes. If
you are too free with praise, the
athlete is not motivated enough
to improve. He or she is feeling just fine at
his or her current level of performance. Try
withholding your approval a little bit at
this point and the athlete will imme-diately
start searching for
ways to regain it. If you don't
praise enough, the athlete
will get discouraged and
stop trying. Go back to
square one
and start
praising the
most important
things the athlete is doing right, and he or
she should get back on track. CONCEPT 2 Finding the right carrot is
important. In my own expe-rience,
I once scratched a line in the dirt for
a shot putter as a challenge. If he threw
over the line, I would buy him all the Big
Macs he could eat. Food was his life. I was
shocked at how much he could eat! Soon,
everyone wanted the same deal. It was a
very successful and expensive year.
In addition, the successful coach knows
each athlete very well, recognizes plateaus
in performance, and caters approval and
praise and reward to the individual. It's
also very helpful to keep your athlete in
touch with reality--subscribe to publica-tions
that list outstanding performances,
watch your local and state lists, let your
athletes know where they stand relative to
everybody else. There's nothing worse than
thinking you're the greatest because you're
the state champion, when you don't even
make the national lists.
Using a Stick Carefully
Not all the news we have to deliver to
athletes is good news. Once in awhile, an
athlete will really have a disastrous per-formance
that just can't be ignored. There
are ways of making correction more palat-able,
however. Instead of launching into a
diatribe on flaws and faults, begin your
discussion with a summary of what went
right. Something, even if it's a minor thing,
always goes right.
CONCEPT 3
By starting off on a positive
note, you reaffirm your role
as being in the athlete's corner, and what-ever
corrections have to be made will come
across as more constructive.
Use objective methods, such as review-ing
films, to make your points whenever
possible. You can't argue with a camera,
and there's less need for face saving on the
part of the athlete. If you're angry, wait
until you're calm to have your discussion.
Above all, the
athlete doesn't
need your exas-peration
and
despair in the
middle of com-petition.
Nobody per-forms
their best
when they're
being yelled at.
It helps to remind ourselves that this is all
about the kids--it's their performance, not
ours. It may be difficult, as one of my
friends related, to see your career being
dribbled down court by an 18 year old,
but the coach's success is entirely secondary
to the athlete's.
CONCEPT 4 Our eventual goal is to
make each athlete a student
of his/her events. By modeling effective
analysis of performance, and soliciting the
athlete's views, we are teaching our athletes
important athletic and life skills. The sign
of a truly effective program is in the suc-cess
of its athletes once they go on to the
college level.
Become a Cheerleader at Competition
If possible, restrict your real instruction
and feedback to the practice setting. Your
role at a competition is entirely different. CONCEPT 5 Here, the teacher becomes a
cheerleader. The athletes are
as prepared as they're ever going to be
when they enter the stadium. This is not a
time for last minute adjustments of form
and technique. Perceptual motor patterns
operate at their best when they are on
cruise control.
Too much thinking about last minute
advice will bring the automatic patterns
back up to the conscious level, and every-thing
the athlete does will slow down. (If
you must fix something, try to restrict your
comments to one area -- in working with
shot putters, you might focus on keeping
their shoulders down in the middle of the
ring, for instance.) A coach should focus
on activating the athlete's fight/flight sym-pathetic
nervous system, which will pro-vide
the burst of energy our ancestors
depended on for their very survival. People
really can do amazing feats like lifting cars
off children when they are sufficiently
motivated.
There are many ways to do this. One of
the most interesting is the "haka" used by
New Zealand rugby squads. By adapting
traditional Maori prewar rituals, the New
Zealanders recreate the emergency mindset
needed for top
performance,
and they man-age
to scare
their opponents
half to death at
the same time!
The functions of
brain and body
are intertwined.
By assuming the
facial expressions and postures of the pre-war
rituals, the athletes are telling their
brains that an emergency situation exists.
The brain responds by shutting down low
priority systems like digestion and putting
all resources into heart, lungs, and muscle.
Outstanding performances are the result.
Strengthening the Coach-Athlete Bond
In closing, we might remind ourselves
that the coach-athlete relationship follows
the rules of all human relationships. CONCEPT 6 In successful relationships,
positive interactions out-number
negative interactions by a factor of
at least 5:1. When positive and negative
interactions approach a 1:1 ratio, the rela-tionship
is doomed. Some of us are just
naturally more positive people, but all of
us can do a better job if we concentrate on
bringing out our more positive sides. CONCEPT 7 You can strengthen the natural
bond between you as
the coach and your athletes by getting your
veteran athletes involved in the 'coaching'
process by assigning them mentoring
responsibilities with the younger athletes. It
is important to remember that before moti-vation
can come from an athlete, it must
first come from the coach and the veteran
athletes. It is the responsibility of the coach
and the senior athletes to inspire and lead.
You must provide the reason the young
athlete wants to succeed.
It is important to realize that motivation
starts with having a dream. That dream
may be as humble as earning a varsity let-ter
or as grand as winning the Olympic
Games. In either case, it is the responsibili-ty
of the coach and the veteran athletes to
inspire and provide support for the dream
within each of us. Good luck in the track
season ahead!
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